![]() ![]() “I get asked about my tattoo very frequently and sometimes it’s hard, my responses vary by person if I feel up to telling her story,” Cox tells Scary Mommy. In a way, having a memorial tattoo defies nature, sticking with the bereaved far after their own passing.įor some, much like bereaved mother Jasmin Cox from Alaska, who lost her first child shortly after birth due to pregnancy complications, memorial tattoos can be a useful way to tell a narrative when those who are grieving find themselves unable to find the words. The deceased’s memory is honored through the ink, etched forever, and visible even in the wake of death. Just as the bereaved grieve in a way that is unique and permanent, memorial tattoos are also unique and permanent. Losing a loved one and the grief that follows sticks with a person forever. Believe it or not, having a memorial tattoo has helped me throughout my many recurring stages of grief. Three years later, and I’m still grateful that what I envisioned was breathed to life. It was fitting for me, perfect for her, and overall, it gave me a sense of peace. I ended up going with a delicate watercolor design reading “Lainey Loo,” and written just beneath it the words, “too beautiful for earth.” With one of my best friends by my side and a desperate longing to take an active role in my own grief, I set out to find a tattoo artist to design my first memorial piece. However, there was something I could do to keep some piece of her memory with me. I needed her most, and that was an impossibility. This time, in her honor.įrom the beginning, I knew I needed something more in my grief than what I was already doing. Then I lost my daughter when she was four months old to SIDS, and it was never a question that I’d mark myself again with ink. The first one I received marked my arm at 18, while I naively believed it was a one-and-done type of ordeal. To me, the buzzing is soothing, the clean atmosphere is cleansing, and the end result is worth every needle-prick of my pain. I trust this information will be helpful to you on your journey to capture your desire to remember those you love in a meaningful, profound way.I’ve never been a person who handles needles with my dignity intact, but I consider tattoos to be a beautiful form of artwork and outward expression. You may read about them here: Symbolic Meaning of the Fir Tree and Symbolic Meaning of Apple Tree Specific trees that are worshipped for their ability to honor our loved ones are the fir and apple. Trees: The Celtic Ogham provides exquisite symbolic poetry. I’ve written about the horse here: Symbolic Meanings of the Horse ![]() Horse: The horse is a totem of remembrance, honor, love and is often portrayed in mythology as a vehicle for souls who have moved to another dimension of existence. You’re not limited to Western/Greek astrology either – you may use Native American, Celtic, Burmese, Chinese…here is a link to my zodiac signs: Astrology Signs and Meanings Perhaps you may use your loved one’s astrological sign as a symbol of remembrance. Zodiac: Astrology is infinite in its uses and wisdom. ![]() Pansy (flower): Pansies are flowers of remembrance of our loved ones – I’ve written a bit about this here (7th flower down): Symbolic Flowers and Their Meanings When we apply Air (thought/remembrance/honor) to Fire (the passion/essence/spirit of a person) it is a symbolic action to honor a loved one. What do I mean by this? In the world of symbolism, each element represents a human trait. Here are some suggestions:įire: A symbol of fire brings about the energy of ignition, creativity, and passion – it is among the four elements that increases its expanse by our attention to it. When we wish to remember those we love, often it is the little things – a favorite song, favorite color, a beloved book – those things stand out to allow us to make a symbol of them for us to more clearly remember those we love.īut, you’ve asked me for a straight-forward, textbook symbol for a remembrance tattoo. It is the uniqueness in humanity that provides the most beautiful and profound symbolism. ![]() My gut tells me to encourage you to recall those outstanding features your loved ones exude, and incorporate this into a personal symbol of your own. One such request came last month from a gentleman who wanted symbolic suggestions for remembrance tattoos to honor loved ones who have passed. I am often asked about symbolic meanings for the purpose of tattoos. Symbolic Suggestions for Remembrance Tattoos ![]()
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